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Ruby Rare

Author of The Non-Monogamy Playbook and Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults.

This is a platform to buy my books ethically, and I also get asked to recommend books quite often (particularly about sex & relationships), so here's a list of my faves. By buying through here, you're supporting me as well as local independent bookshops. Enjoy! x

The Non-Monogamy Playbook: Exploring Polyamory and Open Relationships with Confidence
Outrage: How To Fight for LGBTQ+ Lives
Hera Lindsay Bird
Will I Ever Have Sex Again?: A disarmingly honest and funny exploration of sex (and those who aren't having it)
100 Boyfriends
Rubyfruit Jungle
Love Speaks Its Name: Gay and Lesbian Love Poems
Sex Ed: A Guide for Adults
Queer Sex: A Trans and Non-Binary Guide to Intimacy, Pleasure and Relationships
The Wonder Down Under: A User's Guide to the Vagina
Mind The Gap: The truth about desire and how to futureproof your sex life
Come as You Are: the bestselling guide to the new science that will transform your sex life
The Come As You Are Workbook: a practical guide to the science of sex
Gender Explorers: Our Stories of Growing Up Trans and Changing the World
Sex and Punishment: Four Thousand Years of Judging Desire
Revolting Prostitutes: The Fight for Sex Workers’ Rights
The Hormone Diaries: The Bloody Truth About Our Periods
The Sexual Healing Journey: A Guide for Survivors of Sexual Abuse (Third Edition)
Manhood: The Bare Reality
Womanhood: The Bare Reality
Queer: A Graphic History
Brilliant Questions About Growing Up: Simple Answers About Bodies and Boundaries
The Ethical Slut: A Practical Guide to Polyamory, Open Relationships, and Other Freedoms in Sex and Love
Rewriting the Rules: An Anti Self-Help Guide to Love, Sex and Relationships
Sex at Dawn: How We Mate, Why We Stray, and What It Means for Modern Relationships
The State Of Affairs: Rethinking Infidelity - a book for anyone who has ever loved
Mating in Captivity: How to keep desire and passion alive in long-term relationships
Fattily Ever After: A Black Fat Girl's Guide to Living Life Unapologetically
Animal: The Autobiography of a Female Body
Body Positive Power: How to stop dieting, make peace with your body and live
The Wonder Down Under: A User's Guide to the Vagina
Girl, Woman, Other
Reef
The Hare With Amber Eyes: A Hidden Inheritance
A Fine Balance: The epic modern classic
The Poisonwood Bible: Author of Demon Copperhead, Winner of the Women’s Prize for Fiction
What is the What
And the Mountains Echoed
His Dark Materials bind-up
Rubyfruit Jungle
The House of the Spirits: Vintage Quarterbound Classics
Funny Boy: A Novel in Six Stories
A Thousand Ships
The Non-Monogamy Playbook: Exploring Polyamory and Open Relationships with Confidence
Nova Scotia House: A Novel
Unlearning Shame: How Rejecting Self-Blame Culture Gives Us Real Power
Pink-Pilled: Women and the Far Right
Harriet Tubman: Live in Concert: A Novel
Loving Corrections
Solemates: A History of Our Fetish for Feet
Roses for Hedone: On Queer Hedonism and World-Making Through Pleasure
Monstrum: Longlisted for the 2025 Dylan Thomas Prize
Slags